This famous Stephen Covey quote has quite a lot to teach us about how to get to where we want to go: "Begin with the end in mind".  Pretend you wake up tomorrow and everything is exactly how you want it.  What do you look like?  How do you feel?  How do you sound?  Describe the quality of your relationships, your level of energy and sense of well-being.  What would you be doing with your life? If you are going to end up somewhere by choice rather than by chance, what "end" will you create in your mind's eye?